I noticed several details during the assessment.
The lazy guy always have the worse attitude when it comes to learning. He doesn’t want to be here in NS. He doesn’t want to come to my vocation. Studying for his assessment was torture to him.
The more I saw, the more clear it is to me, the reason why was because his attitude was bad. He doesn’t learn anything because he doesn’t take pride in his work.
When a man stops taking pride in his work, this is what you will become. Lazy. Irritable. Frustrated. Angry. He will get irritated because he see no point in your actions.
When there is no meaning or significance in what you do, it will be a waste of time to you. Humans need drive and meaning. When things happen, people want the reason. When there is no drive, can you blame a person for Bad attitude?
You can only blame for no meaning or drive.
An interesting point I noticed from my friends was that the two Malays in my syndicate tend to be rather good in practical but bad in theory. They seem to think that presentation is more important than content. Well for a person that literally studies aesthetics I do think that presentation is very important. However, I do think that presentation will follow once the content is there. Content is still key.
It is rather sad, because they actually know what they are doing they just don’t have the confidence to present what they know. As a result, it appears that they don’t know what they know. Schools should teach their students how to express themselves without using bombastic vocabulary or encourage them to use simple language to do it. They get stuck in between expressing themselves and overthinking so much on how to express themselves.
Complaining that “I need a break” isn’t going to solve the problem if you need to do it. Suck it up, stop finding excuses.
If you asked someone for help and he is already trying his best to help you, don’t be an ass, if you get frustrated with him, come on shut up. You have no right to be angry. You need to understand that he is taking time out to help you, he has the right to refuse to help.
Details and keywords are important. The lazy guy got frustrated because I wanted the key words out of him. He claims that there was no difference that the instructor would know. If it was only so convinient. -sigh-
Lord, the patience you have given me is really quite commendable. Thank you Lord. Keep me loving and patient Lord.
Stay with me through this battle Lord.